If this generation has its own Bogs and Mae ( Paano Na Kaya, 2010) and Palits and Marian ( near to you, 2006 ), well my generation had our bff’s that is cute Budjoy Ned from Marvin & Jolina’s 1998 film called “ Labs Kita, Okay Lang? ” (I’m sure, throwback! ). Each one is fictional tales of youth close friends secretly dropping in deep love with one another but were both reluctant to cope with and acknowledge their feelings to be able to protect the relationship.
Ang daming madaling maka-relate sa mga ganitong movie themes since male-female friend relationships that are best are becoming not merely feasible, but quite typical today. And I’d love to share my two cents well well worth on it.
Therefore, could it be fine to be close friends with some body associated with contrary intercourse?
Sleepover with some of my girlfriends during my Baguio apt.
I usually get this question, and my answer would always be that while I do not see cross-gender best friend relationships as morally wrong, I definitely do not encourage and advocate them when I give talks about relationships. Below are a few reasoned explanations why:
? Our teenage and very early twenty years can be sensibly found in buying healthy same-sex friendships. Although it’s correct that of the very most essential social transitions in adolescence could be the development of other-sex peer relationships for social and emotional modification, this doesn’t necessarily imply that opposite-sex friend relationships that are best (OSBFR) would be extremely useful. (more…)